Despite trying our best, there are some instances where paying our last respects by attending the funeral of a friend or family member isn’t possible. There are many reasons why and usually, those closest to the dearly departed can understand. However, just because the grieving has accepted your absence does not mean you should do nothing.
Here are some ways you can show love and support for those who are grieving while at the same time honoring the passing of their loved one without being physically present:
Sending A Sympathy Card
Sending a sympathy card to the family and friends of the deceased is one of the best things you can do from afar. Writing a heartfelt message with sincere condolences can offer a lot of comfort to those who are grieving. The message does not have to be long, sometimes short and meaning is better in these cases.
Ending the message with a promise of a phone call is also encouraged. Make a note of the date promised on your calendar and be sure to keep your promise as this will mean a great deal to them.
Bring Comfort Food
If you missed the funeral, but are back in town soon after be sure to drop by and visit the family or friends as soon as possible. Don’t forget to bring food as during the grieving process people forget to eat or they do not have the energy to cook for themselves and their family.
Be sure to bring food that the family will actually like so that your efforts do not go to waste. Remember if they have any dietary restrictions and be sure to take the kids into account as they too are grieving the loss of a loved one.
Send sympathy gifts
If you are very close to the family or friends of the person who has passed away, personalized sympathy gifts dedicated to their memory can be a comforting gesture. These gifts can be as simple as a personalized candle that can symbolize hope or something more meaningful like a personalized keepsake box for those who are having trouble accepting their loss.
As long as the gifts are appropriate for the level of relationship you share with the family, these will always be cherished by those who receive them.
Donate To A Charity
If the dearly departed had a favorite charity they supported in life, it is a wonderful gesture to donate to the said charity in their name and honor. Let the family know that you dedicated a donation under their memory as a way of offering your condolences on their loss. Sometimes a little good deed is all the comfort the family needs to start their healing process.
There is no need to be physically present during a funeral. As long as the grieving friends and family know that you are grieving with them from afar, it is more than enough to touch their hearts. Just remember to offer your help and support when they are in need.
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